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Issue 6
 

Invitations: The Present Moment



  
Free Movie: The Present Moment

We are delighted to share a new short, inspirational movie: The Present Moment. The Present Moment was made from an excerpt from You Have Chosen to Remember: A Journey from Perception to Knowledge, Peace of Mind and Joy by James Blanchard Cisneros.

After you watch the short movie, you can easily email it to a friend or add your thoughts to the movie's forum.

You can also read the text from the Present Moment video here.

We hope you enjoy the movie!
 

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Ask the Author:
Trying to Live in the Present Moment, but Having a Hard Time.

I have been trying to live in the present, but my thoughts wander either to the past and past hurts or to the future where a multitude of “what ifs” stand before me. I want to embrace the joy of the day, to see good things in what I am doing - now. How do I keep myself grounded in the moment? I am missing many moments thinking about the future or past. I have been through a mentally abusive marriage and made it. I have lost loved ones and loved pets. I have lost security of my home and money. I know that these lessons have made me stronger, but some days I don't feel strong. Some days I feel sad and defeated. How do I move on to embrace life again?

- Shelley, Ontario, Canada

1 – It is always ok to feel what you are feeling. The ego would have you judge yourself any time you’re feeling sad or defeated. When you play the ego’s game, you end up feeling bad for feeling bad. It is obvious that this game gets you nowhere you truly desire, but this is the ego’s advice. Yet, do not judge yourself for listening to the ego and falling back into the same old reactions, for this is how most of us have been trained to look and react to life – to judge life instead of offering gratitude for it.

2 - Practice what you desire to experience.
If you truly desire “to embrace the joy of the day, to see good things in what I’m doing,” then be on a conscious journey to bring these thoughts and feeling into the present moment. Consciously practice bringing them into your daily experience until they become second nature. Do you not see that when you are feeling “sad or defeated” that you are practicing being in this vibrational state, in these moods? You are actually unconsciously reinforcing these behaviors as natural and logical responses to the external stimuli. You are unconsciously creating electrical synaptic pathways in your brain that will make it easier and “more comfortable” for you to react this same way to external stimuli - with sad and defeated feelings. You are, in an unconscious manner, responsible for your reactions to these external stimuli. You are paving your own road!

Do not judge yourself for feeling what you are feeling, but do know that you have a lot more responsibility for your thoughts and reactions than you are currently being told. So practice my dear friend, practice. Practice experiencing peace of mind and joy. Practice embracing the joy of the day and seeing the good in all things – for the more you do so, the smoother your journey will be.

3 – Feel what you are feeling, but also analyze why you are choosing to focus on this, rather than what you truly desire.
When there are more than a few days that you feel lost and defeated, and you do not truly question why, you repeat this reactionary pattern to your environment until it becomes second nature. But in truth, it is not your natural self reacting. You are simply reacting as you had in the past. This sad and defeated response is a programmed response to your environment. And so you feel yourself having these feelings, you react the same way that you have in the past, and unconsciously strengthen this programming until it just feels like second nature – like your natural response – but it is far from your natural response. And so my good friend, be glad for that! For if you have unconsciously trained yourself – you can then consciously deprogram the thought patterns that you no longer desire to support.

4 – Understand the difference between how it feels to live in the present moment, and how it feels when you are not living in the present moment.
When you are participating in the present moment, peace of mind, joy, compassion and unconditional love are your companions. When you are stressed, angry, feeling hurt, experiencing sadness, feeling defeated or regret then understand that you are substituting your unconscious past programming for the true gift of the present moment. Being in the present moment is an expression of your natural state of being. Because it is your natural state of being, then it must be, in its truest sense, an easy act. My friend, being in the present moment is a lot easier than the ego has programmed us to believe. During your day, practice asking yourself: “Am I living in the present moment?” The simple act of bringing this question into your awareness will begin the deprogramming process.

5 – Retrain yourself to be thankful, and offer gratitude for every single moment.
When you are participating in the present moment, and you are experiencing peace of mind, joy, compassion and unconditional love, offer gratitude and be thankful - for this is a choice you are making. Be proud of yourself for choosing truth over illusion. When you are experiencing stress, anger, feeling hurt, experiencing sadness, feeling defeated or regret, simply try to catch yourself sooner and sooner, then offer gratitude and be thankful that through your growth and choice, you are spending less and less time in the illusion. Thank your “negative” emotions, for they, in their own self destructive way, are assisting you in spending less time with them, and more time in gratitude and joy. The less time you invest in your “negative” emotions, the less time you will experience them throughout your day - and in simple mathematical terms, the more time you will spend in the present moment throughout your day.

Whenever you offer gratitude for your day, you are lifting your vibrational state and aligning yourself with your true self. Remember, that all things which you now see happening are simply the physical reflections of your thinking, showing you the meaning you have attached to them. Thus, offer gratitude that the outside world is showing you your internal thoughts, feelings and emotions that you are accepting as real. For this allows you to correct and deprogram those areas in your life that are “causing” you to feel hurt, sad and defeated. Bringing these thoughts to the surface allows light to shine on them, and lets you see what you are focusing on, supporting and manifesting in your life. Continue reading this Q&A.


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Read More About the Present Moment

To read more about the Present Moment, you may want to read Chapter Eight Overview: Being in the Now. You can also read the text from the Present Moment video here.

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Our YouTube Channel: PeaceOfMindNow

We are happy to announce the launch of our YouTube channel: PeaceOfMindNow - www.youtube.com/user/peaceofmindnow. If you like our videos and you feel inclined, please rate, add comments, and share the videos with your friends. Through YouTube, you can easily add these inspiring videos to your web site, Facebook page, MySpace page and other social networking sites.

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Would You Like Some Extra Inspiration During Your Day?

Have you checked out our new and improved home page? Now, whenever you go to www.ChosenToRemember.com, a new inspirational quote will appear for you. After each quote, you can choose to view another randomly generated inspirational quote.

Consider bookmarking www.ChosenToRemember.com. And whenever you need some extra inspiration during the day, it will be just a mouse click away.

Please note: The quotes are randomly generated, so it is possible to get the same quote more than once.

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