Daily Inspiration: November 6. Loving those Who Judge and Criticize Us

Love is our Creator and All, if we are not in alignment with All, then we will feel lost and confused. It is when we feel lost and confused, that we judge and criticize those who themselves, because they are also lost and confused, judge and criticize us. Judgment and criticism of self and others, are not a signs of someone who is bad, not spiritual or evil, these are just symbols of one who has lost their way. What would you think that those who are lost would project onto this world? Would fear, confusion and chaos, not come from such a mindset? Why would we ever want to judge those who are fearful, confused and are buying into the chaos of the ego’s world? Let us today not judge and criticize those that would judge and criticize us, instead, let us be to them a light within the darkness, a glimmer of hope and healing. Today, let us simply forgive those who remain asleep to their true nature. Let us awaken to the realization, that their judgments and criticisms, are just calls for help and healing. Today, let us simply help and heal all those who are unconsciously, in their own uniques ways, calling out for help and healing. Let us remember, that the healing of this planet begins within our own minds. The ego has programmed us to believe that being judgmental and critical are natural expressions. Yet, let us also recall that the ego tries to place itself in opposition to God, to Truth, thus it itself and its mindset, is thus false, and illusionary in nature. Today, instead of continuing, through our time, focus and effort, to believe and reinforce a falsehood as true, let us instead view and recognize such behaviors, as simply symbols of a mind asleep. You need not judge yourself as less than for being asleep, simply recognize the symbols of sleep, and use them to trigger in you, the desire to awaken. Let’s allow today’s goal to simply be to awaken to our true loving nature, and thus to love all, even and especially those who, through their behavior, are showing us that they still remain asleep.

God is Love and All, thus every true thought, every thought that you would have while awake, is in one form or another, a loving thought, or a thought that is leading us in Love’s direction. Are you not your Love’s creation? If God who is All is non-dualistic Love, meaning that there is in truth no opposition to All, Love, then would you as All’s creation, or at least the Truth in you, not be only Love? Yes indeed, rejoice, for you are only Love. Yet still, within a mind asleep, there can indeed seem to be a world where we have been programmed by the ego to support a dualistic mindset, and thus a dualistic world, where there appears to be an opposite to All, Love, God. But it is only those who are asleep to the Truth in them, that buy into this false narrative as true. Yes, while asleep within the dream state, the dream for many may appear very real. But no matter how real the dream that you are in may appear to be, no matter how crazy, weird or off-putting, what is happening within the dream, after all is said and done, is still only a dream. Do not despair, for every time in your life, that you chose to awaken from the ego’s dream, you will find that you do so, in God’s arms. Love and its numerous expressions, such as those of kindness, compassion, forgiveness, peace and joy, are all symbols that you are awaken and in God’s arms. Would you really ever want to be anywhere else? Regardless of the dreams you may be dreaming, regardless of how much you believe that the dreams of judgment and criticism are real, you are and will always be, forever God’s child. Rejoice, God being All is Infinite Love, and so today, if in despair, multiply by infinity the love that you have for your own child, and then ask yourself, would I rather be anyone else other than God’s child?

Today, when we judge or criticize others or ourselves, let us recognize that we are simply asleep and dreaming. Yet, let us also recognize that regardless of the intensity of our dream, God forever watches over us with absolute love, patience and peace. Would it not make sense, being God’s creations, to at the very least try being who God is, and start seeing others as God sees us? Do you not watch over your creations with love, even while they sleep? Do you not think that God is as loving as you? Be patient and loving and remember, that our brothers and sisters simply judge and criticize us, because they sleep. Know that in time they will tire of sleeping, and when that happens, they will awaken. Today, let us remember, that our brothers and sisters can only judge and criticize us because they are unaware of their true nature. Today, we acknowledge that we are awake, by not judging or criticizing their judgments and criticisms of us. If we are awake, we do not judge or criticize them back, not because we’re passive or doormats, but because we are awake, and thus love them no matter what dreams they may be dreaming. Today, let us practice overlooking our brother’s and sister’s dreams, their delusions of us, and consciously view them only as God’s perfect creations. Let us overlook anything but the truth, the Love in them. As we practice seeing only their loving nature, because we are all One, this will reinforce our own understanding of who we are. Today, let us not judge others for judging us, instead, let us acknowledge their actions as symbols of a mind asleep, and that their judgments of us, have in truth nothing to do with us, and everything to do with the dream that they are dreaming.

Today, when another judges or criticizes us, let us make the conscious decision, to not be sucked into their dream. Those of us who are awakening recall, that because God Is Love and All, any behavior that seems to be in opposition to Love, is but a dream. Now we know that only those who are asleep to their true nature could ever judge and criticizes us, for only within a dream could the opposite of Love seem true. Today, let us make a conscious decision to practice aligning only with our loving nature, with our awaken-self, by taking 4 steps: First, we realize that only those who are dreaming can judge or criticize us. Second, we forgive others their dreams of us. Third, we thank them for helping us practice seeing and thus reinforcing our true eternal loving nature. Fourth, as an example of Love and non-judgment, we light the way so that they can begin to see, that they need no longer dream, nor continue to represent, the dream they are dreaming.

I would love to read your thoughts on this post. How does it affect you? How do you think you can implement it in your life? Is there something else that we can add to this post to make it more helpful or complete? Is there something in your own life experience, any life strategy that you partake in, that relates to this post that you think others will find useful? Please be so kind as to share your thoughts with us, in the comment section below.

All glory to God.

Peace, Health, Happiness, Love, Laughter, and Light.

James Blanchard Cisneros

Author of the book “You Have Chosen to Remember”

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Comments (2)

Oh Boy, such a powerful message. A remainder no two paths are the same, we are all walking our own path, at at our speed, and it is indeed a choice to simply stay quiet through out the day when someone starts to judge you….. Remember I they have not walked in your shoes.

So I keep practicing the art of the smile and silently send this person love cause they need it. Its a choice to keep on shining and each day trying to bebetter than the person you were yesterday. Thanks for a wonderful reminder. 🙂

Thank you Marilyn for being open to the messsage and for being a member of our community.

Each one of us has indeed co-designed their journeys with their Creator, and because the Creator is Perfect, then our paths are individually perfect for each one of us. When we recall this, our judgments of self and others fades away, while our peace of mind and joy increases.

When you are looking at yourself and your brothers and sisters without judgment, you are in essence trusting in God, and when you do so, peace results. Because we are all One, it is when you send others love that this love gets to first flow through you and throughout your day. In essence, it is them being in your experience who are offering you the opportunities to bless them and thus heal yourself. As you continue to heal yourself you shine brighter and brighter each day. For this let us always be sure to be grateful to them.

Peace. JBC

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