Daily Inspiration: October 24. Saying “No” In a Loving Manner – Condensed Version

The ego has taught us that saying “no” is rude, creates conflict, and seems selfish. This makes us feel guilty and unloving for expressing ourselves in that manner. The ego has also programmed us to believe that saying “yes”, when you actually mean no, should make us feel resentful, thus making us feel bad or weak-minded. As always, the ego’s solutions are in one form or another, judgmental, self-destructive and end up separating us from each other. Today, let us place the ego’s mind games aside, and instead of feeling the pressure to offer a response, say to the individual: “Let me get back to you on that.” This statement will give you the time to put aside the ego’s programmed response, and practice consciously aligning yourself with how you really feel and want to answer.

Today, if asked to do something for another, stop for a moment, align with the loving truth in you, and ask yourself: “What would be the most self-loving and self-respecting thing to say or do.” The more you   practice aligning with your loving nature, the more love you will have available for others. Now, when you answer from a place of self-love, it is not because you are selfish, it is because you understand that we are all One. Being all One, the most self-loving response, is the most loving response that you can offer another. Your response in truth has nothing to do with a ‘yes’ or ‘no,’ it has to do with love. Now, because you align with love, whatever that response may be, it will be a loving one. The truth in others is not really interested in your ‘yes’ or ‘no’ response, it is interested in your love and loving response.  

All glory to God.

Peace, Health, Happiness, Love, Laughter, and Light.

James Blanchard Cisneros
Author of the book “You Have Chosen to Remember

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Comments (2)

Thank u – excellent help in decision making responses. Had not seen addressed in this way before. Very applicable to me -especially when I need to provide expert comments, opinion, recommendations re cases in which I am involved – sometimes even the need to consider if I should exit involvement in the situation.

Thank you Louisa for being a member of our community.

You have co-created a perfect and individualized journey with the Creator of the Universe.

Each step along your sacred path, each decision that you make on that path, will be used, if you allow it to, by God for good.

Before every decision, align with the love that in truth you are, allow love to decide for you, and it will.

Today, be love, in all of its forms and expressions, and feel them surround and embrace you throughout your day.

Peace. JBC

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