Daily Inspiration: December 11. Ending the Ego’s Shame Game

Shame and any other words, feelings or actions that in any way put you or others down are, in truth, illusionary in nature, false concepts we have been taught to believe as real. The ego has fabricated this false-reality in order to help it perpetuate its illusionary concepts of judgment and separation. Judgment is the action that fuels the ego’s mindset. By placing parameters on what is ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ it gets to shape, and thus be in control of our experience. When the ego is in control of our experience, it assures its survival through us. When we are being judgmental of self or others, we are playing the ego’s games, thus allowing the ego to think for us. Separation is the false concept that gets you to feel that you can judge others without hurting yourself. When the ego can convince us that we are not all One, then our judgments of others don’t seem have a negative effect on us. God is Love and All, thus there is no room, as an opposition to All, for the ego and it’s concepts of judgment and separation. Knowing this, the ego in order for it to exist, fabricates a seemingly separate false reality. In this illusionary world, which some call duality, there seems to exist an opposition to God, Love, All, Truth. In Truth this is not possible. Only within the ego’s fairy tale, can the unreal can appear to be real. In the ego’s world, such concepts as judgment of self and others, guilt, anger, and shame all “prove” that there is something other than God, or in other words, being in opposition to Love, disproves an All-Loving God. In such a delusional environment you of course feel unsafe and thus use the ego’s judgments to try to defend and separate yourself from an insane world. It is only within an illusion, fairy tale or dream, that such madness, like the creation of Perfection feeling shame, can seem normal, rational, right or true.

What has shaming yourself or others ever done for you? Maybe, within the ego’s fairy tale it has offered you a false sense of temporary power over another? Maybe, it has made you feel stronger because you can, in your mind, put another person down and thus feel for a moment superior? Maybe, it has made you feel somewhat safe, in an effort to try to hide that you are really feeling unsafe and afraid? Are any of these so-called reasons truly worthy of you, of God’s perfect creation? No they are not, and so enough already with supporting the ego’s mindset of lies as true. Enough with the power fantasies, and thinking that Oneness, All, God, Love, could ever be opposed. Enough with supporting a mindset that has in truth never brought you the everlasting peace of mind, joy and love, that you have wanted. Let us today, make the conscious decision, to stop adding to our confusion, suffering and pain. Let us today remember, that God’s creations are perfect, exactly as they were created. Let us recall, that because their journeys, like ours, are a sacred co-creation with God, they are perfectly design to help us grow, heal and awaken. Enough with judging God’s creations as less than who they truly are. Enough with the disturbing delusions that our brothers and sisters are so-called strangers, illegal aliens, or enemies. Enough with all these childish little ego centered games that so obviously are trying to disprove the existence of an All-Loving God. We have all slept long enough, it is now time for us to awaken. It is time to stop judging ourselves and others, stop shaming and feeling ashamed, and start becoming the representative of God, Love, that we came here to be.

Today, let us make the conscious decision to place the ego’s hunger for its dozens of forms of self-judgment, self-criticism, shaming, and even self-hate aside. We do so by ending the time, focus and energy, that we have been fueling these delusions with. Instead, let us redistribute that time, focus and energy, to supporting, trusting and respecting, the perfect and sacred nature of the journey that each one of us has co-create with God. Today, let us offer gratitude, deep, honest and heart-felt gratitude, to our past-self and God, for all we have experienced, overcome and learned, to become who we are today. Your journey is your unique, sacred and individualized, expression of God. Your journey does not need to look like, or be compared to anyone else’s journey. If others cannot see that, then that is on them, not you. The perfect nature of your journey does not exclude the perfect nature of everyone’s journeys, and vice-versa. Within the fairy tale, the ego’s judgments of you and your journey will come in a thousand different forms, yet none of them matter, because being all illusions, none of them are true. Shame is one such illusion, shame is a sham; it is that and nothing else. Shame is simply a false concept that the ego has programmed us to believe as true. Shame is a mind control device that the ego uses to guilt you into following its delusional path. Anytime that you begin to question or deviate from the ego’s path, it tries to make you feel guilty and ashamed for doing so. But do not despair, for once we begin to awaken to who in truth we are, we will stop supporting with our time, focus and energy, the ego’s lies, such as those of guilt, anger, and shame, as true. As we end our support for the ego’s delusions, their fuel source is taken away from them, and thus their control over us ends.

Today, when any thought of shame pops into your mind, remember, that this is simply a false concept, that we have been programed to believe as real. It is your belief in it, that makes it appear to be real. Take your belief away from it, and watch it begin to dissolve away before your light and understanding. Today, let us only support our true loving nature as true. God being Perfect only creates perfectly. That is why your journey, and because we are all One, everyones journeys, is our perfect individualized and collective path. God being Love and All, will always use all for good. Trust this truth as true and be at peace. Today, let us stop fueling with our time, focus and energy, the false idol of shame. Shame is not who you are, love is. Shame is not your creator, Love is. Today, choose to trust God more than the ego’s delusions, and once again align with the states of certainty, peace and understanding, that are your true nature, Source and Home. 

I would love to read your thoughts on this post. How does it affect you? How do you think you can implement it in your life? Is there something else that we can add to this post to make it more helpful or complete? Is there something in your own life experience, any life strategy that you partake in, that relates to this post that you think others will find useful? Please be so kind as to share your thoughts with us, in the comment section below.

All glory to God.

Peace, Health, Happiness, Love, Laughter, and Light.

James Blanchard Cisneros

Author of the book “You Have Chosen to Remember”

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Comments (4)

An insightful way to overcome certain emotions. Thankyou for this.
The struggle is more when living with family members or partners who continuously bring you down..and do not choose to walk on a path of transformation, such that you feel drawn into their negative energy.. that brings the Self down and into internal chaos.

Trying to rise above it then leads to further misuse of good intentions. Would love to see more on dealing with these relationships, if not already written on..?

Thank you Saks for being open to the message.

When with anyone, no matter who they may be, always remind yourself:

“Only I can control the thoughts I focus on and think. Thus, only I have the ultimate power and responsibility over my levels of peace or pain.”

Today, when others seem to be bringing you down, stop, remind yourself that it is you who has control over your thoughts, and then choose forgiveness over judgment and thus peace over pain.

Remind yourself when feeling attacked:

“No one can bring me down other than the thoughts I choose to focus on and dedicate my time and energy to. I now take personal responsibility for the thoughts I support, and only support with my time, focus and energy, those thoughts that support me and my peace of mind and joy.”

Then always end every interaction with gratitude. Gratitude because all others are in truth doing is helping you recall that it is you who has final say over the thoughts you think. All they are in truth doing is helping you practice realizing that it is you, not the outer world nor those in it who hold the true power.

Peace. JBC

Praise the Lord. He has sent an answer to my problems of shame and guilt. thank You God. Thank you James Blanchard Cisneros.

Thank you Hasmukh for bing open to the message.

When guilt and shame come calling, answer their call by forgiving yourself and others. Do so, so that you can become and share the light and loved filled being that God created you to be. Do so, so that you may light the way for those who are currently finding it too dark to see.

Peace. JBC

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