Daily Inspiration: December 11. Ending the Ego’s Shame Game

Shame and any other words, feelings, or actions that in any way put you or others down, are in truth, illusionary in nature, and seem only real because we have been programmed by the ego to believe in their ‘reality.’ The ego has fabricated this false-reality to help perpetuate the false concepts of judgment and separation. Judgment is the action that fuels the ego’s mindset, by placing parameters on what is ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ it gets to shape, and thus be in control, of our experience. When the ego is in control of our experience, it assures itself survival through us. When we are aligned with the state of judgment, we are playing the ego’s games, thus unconsciously allowing the ego to think for us. Separation is the false concept that gets you to feel that it is ok to judge yourself and others. When the ego can convince you that we are not all One, that we are separate from each other, it is then that it can convince you that you can judge others, without those judgments having any kind of negative effect on you. But because God is Love and All, there is in truth no opposition to God’s Love, thus no real room for the ego’s concepts of judgment and separation to truly exist within Truth. The ego knowing this, and in order for it to exist, has to create a ‘separate false reality’. In this illusionary world, which some call duality, there exist an opposition to God, Love, All, Truth. In Truth this is impossible. Yet only within the ego’s fairy tale, can the unreal can appear to be real. In the ego’s world, such concepts as judgment of self and others, guilt, anger, and shame all “prove” that there is something other than God, or in other words, being in opposition to Love, disprove God. It is in such an environment that the ego has trained you to feel unsafe, believe that you can judge God’s child and that God’s child can judge you, all in truth His perfect creations, and make it seem normal, rational and right to do so. It is only within an illusion, fairy tale or dream, that such madness, like perfection feeling shame, can seem normal, rational and right.

What has shaming yourself and others ever done for you? Maybe, within the ego’s fairy tale it has offered you a false sense of temporary power over another? Maybe, it has made you feel stronger because you can, in your mind, put another person down and thus feel for a moment superior? Maybe, it has made you feel somewhat safe, in an effort to try to hide that you are really feeling unsafe and afraid? Are any of these so-called reasons truly worthy of you, of God’s perfect creation? No they are not, and so enough already with supporting the ego’s mindset of lies as true. Enough with the power fantasies, and thinking that Oneness, All, God, Love, could ever be opposed. Enough with a mindset that has in truth never brought you the everlasting peace of mind, joy and love, that you have forever wanted to experience. Let us today make the conscious decision to stop adding to our confusion, suffering and pain. Let us today remember that God’s creations are perfect, exactly as they were created, and that their journeys, as a sacred co-creation with God, are also perfect to help them grow, heal and awaken. Enough with judging your past as less than, when now you know that the Creator of the Universe has co-created it with you. Enough with the delusions that our brothers and sisters are less or more than us, so-called strangers, illegal aliens, or enemies. Enough with all these childish little games that so obviously are trying to disprove the existence of God. Enough with forgetting that we, all of us, are His perfect creations. We have all slept long enough, it is now time for us to awaken, make the conscious choice to stop judging ourselves and others, stop shaming and feeling ashamed, and start becoming who we, through Truth, came here to be.

Today, let us make the conscious choice to place the ego’s hunger for its dozens of forms of self-judgment, self-criticism, shaming, and even self-hate aside. We do so by ending the time, focus and energy that we have been fueling these delusions with. Instead let us redistribute that time to trusting, respecting, focusing on, and supporting, the perfection of the sacred journey that we have personally co-create with God. Today, let us offer gratitude, deep, honest, and heart-felt gratitude, to ourselves and God, for all we have experienced, gone through, and learned to become who we are today. Your journey is sacred, unique and individual to you. Your journey does not need to look like, or be compared to, anyone else’s journey. You have co-created an individualized and sacred journey with God, and thus it is perfect for you and you alone. If others cannot see that, then that is on them, not you. In this fairy tale, the ego’s judgments of you and your journey will come in a thousand different forms, yet none of them matter, because being all illusions, none of them are true. Shame is one such illusion, shame is a sham; it is that and nothing else. Shame is an illusion that the ego has programmed us to believe as real. Shame is a way that the ego guilt’s you into following its path. Anytime that you begin to deviate from the ego’s path, it tries to make you feel ashamed for doing so. But do not despair, for once we begin to awaken to who in truth we are, we will stop supporting with our time, focus and energy, the ego’s lies, such as guilt, anger, and shame, as true. As we end our support for them, their fuel source is depleted, and as their fuel source ends, so does its control over us begin to fade away, back into the nothingness from where it first came.

Today, when any sort of shame pops into your mind, remember, that this is very simply a false belief, that you have accepted as real. It is your acceptance of its reality, that makes it appear to be real. Take your belief in its reality away, and watch it begin to dissolve before your light and understanding. Today, let us support only our truth as true. We have co-created with a Perfect All-Loving Source our individual and collective journeys. God being Perfect can only create perfectly, and thus why your journey, no matter how you have been programmed by the ego to think of it, is exactly the perfect path for you. God being Love will always use all for good, trust this and begin to once again consciously align with the state of peace. You are the son or daughter of Peace. Peace is your Source and inheritance, and you are forever worthy of your Source and inheritance. Today, accept and begin to enjoy your inheritance, by letting go of all the false beliefs that have you thinking, that anything apart from the Love in you, such as that of the false concept of shame, is real.

I would love to read your thoughts on this post. How does it affect you? How do you think you can implement it in your life? Is there something else that we can add to this post to make it more helpful or complete? Is there something in your own life experience, any life strategy that you partake in, that relates to this post that you think others will find useful? Please be so kind as to share your thoughts with us, in the comment section below.

All glory to God.

Peace, Health, Happiness, Love, Laughter, and Light.

James Blanchard Cisneros

Author of the book “You Have Chosen to Remember”

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  1. hasmukh

    Praise the Lord. He has sent an answer to my problems of shame and guilt. thank You God. Thank you James Blanchard Cisneros.

  2. Saks

    An insightful way to overcome certain emotions. Thankyou for this.
    The struggle is more when living with family members or partners who continuously bring you down..and do not choose to walk on a path of transformation, such that you feel drawn into their negative energy.. that brings the Self down and into internal chaos.

    Trying to rise above it then leads to further misuse of good intentions. Would love to see more on dealing with these relationships, if not already written on..?

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